It's a good bye

Perpisahan. Akhir-akhir ini kata itu sering banget nyapa gw, dalam berbagai bentuk. Mulai dari perpisahan karena perpindahan habitat sampai perpisahan karena kematian. Semuanya kerasa menyakitkan, bikin gw dehidrasi keabisan air mata. Hahaha, yg ini lebay.

Apa yang datang dari Nya akan kembali kepada Nya, nothing last forever, and in the end salah satu mantra yang jadi penghiburan gw adalah "it's all for the best" dan gw coba buat ikhlasin semuanya.

Ada istilah, you never know how it worth until it's gone, gw cenderung agree with that. I mean, i do realize kalo gw sayang sama mereka, tapi jeleknya gw adalah, gw termasuk orang yang susah buat ngungkapin rasa sayang gw. I have tendency to act sok cool dan sok gengsi padahal ada moment dimana all i wanna do was hug them, told them that they worth the world to me. Now they gone dan gw cuman bisa berharap kalo somehow mereka tahu kalo gw sayang banget sama mereka.

Jadi anak-anak, pesan moral dari coretan ini adalah, jangan males ntar bodo (meskipun ga nyambung tapi wejangan ini bener kan?!) dan show people arounds you right now how much you care for them, jangan nyia-nyiain waktu yang kalian miliki, karena satu hal yang ga bisa kembali adalah waktu. Untungnya, waktu juga diciptain buat nyembuhin luka..  

My Current Playlist

Ini playlist tetep saya slama lebih dari 2 minggu kmaren, ada lagu baru tapi banyak juga yang koleksi lama. Hmm, anybody shared the same playlist?

Story of Peter, Oh I Never Know, Bilur, Question, Perjalanan, Cut and Paste, Fighting Club - Sarasvati
Confession of Emptiness, Trust, Seringan Awan, Lovespell, Kekal, Unfolding Sympathy, Hope Meannes & Decision - Homogenic
Come What May - Nicole Kidman & Ewan McGregor
Pachelbel's Canon - Depapepe
Eet, The Call. Two Birds - Regina Spektor
Paparazi - Lady Gaga
Love The Way You Lie - Eminem feat Rihana
Something More - Secondhand Serenade
The Mess I Made - Parachute
All The Right Moves, Secret, Made for You, All This Time - One Republic

 

My Hourglass Body ^^

According to the quiz I took on shabbyapple, my body shape called Hourglass.
And i quote:

Hourglass

Beautifully curvy. You have broad shoulders and/or a voluptuous chest, a smaller waist and gorgeous full hips.
Style icon: Marilyn Monroe
Style tips: Look for pieces that accentuate your curves and have a fitted waist. Fitted clothing, strait skirts and belted waists are best for you.

Ahaha, masa sih body gw sama ma Marylyn Monroe?? Versi miniaturnya kali yaak. Mungkin.
Dan website itu yang ternyata adalah online shop ngerekomendasiin few dresses that would look great on me. Mmmhhhh, do you have triple s size, sista?

situs green living

Use my saturday noon to surf the net and found this (apa those?) awesome ecofriendly/green living sites :

Green Kampong

this lovely site based in Singapore, chief by Nadya Hutagalung. It presents miscellaneous article and news about green living style from business, fashion, design to recipe. My favorite part is “Green Tips for Daily Living” , it informed me with new fact and tips (obviously) about being more eco friendly and at the same time saves money. It really encourage me to reuse and recycle my old stuff which lead me to this next sites.

this old dresses

“Yoohoo, I'm Connie and I love crafting, hot dogs and soft furry animals”. That’s what the blog owner said, by the way. This blog featured fashion, tips to make things from reusable items such as scarf and bangles, and also links to her favorite musicians/movie, etc.

Instructables

This site gives us tons of DIY projects from making a five minutes cake to making your own table with a well written instruction. As far as I know it was all written by various members. Can’t wait to try the projects ^^

cutout and keep

This is also a DIY blog with tons of projects. I like the projects to turn old shirt into a different outfits, stunning. Hope I can pull my lazy hands and give those projects a shoot since I have lots of old tee on my closet.

My name is dian, and I'm not a terrorist

Hystory in western world marked with BC and AD, but now the marked add with 9/11. after that day, world has change. Specially for Khan. Starting from avoided by friends, out of business then losing a son, all because of prejudice that american has for muslim. So, the journey began to meet the president of USA to say "my name is Khan, and I'm not a terrorist".


Film ini nyeritain tentang Khan. Walaupun lahir dengan asperger syndrome, dia punya ibu dan guru yang hebat yang ngebantu Khan buat ngembangin potensinya dia. What good about Khan? dia polos, cerdas dan jago ngebenerin barang-barang rusak. Kepolosan dia yang jadi sumber komedi di film ini dan keahliannya ngebenerin barang yang jadi modal dia buat survive pas pergi buat nyari Bush.

Dua jempol deh buat film ini, I'm laughing out loud and crying a river during the show. Ketawa-ketawa ngeliat tingkah konyolnya Khan, trus mewek-mewek ngeliat tragedinya. Dan meskipun ini adalah film bollywood, I'm so glad soalnya ga ada nyanyian2 dan nari2 ala film bollywood biasanya. Bagusnya lagi, film ini ngambil setting dari real event. Mulai dari perang sodara muslim hindu tahun 1983 di India, 9/11, bencana alam, ampe pemilihan presiden USA 2009. Semuanya dirangkai, disatuin di kisah hidupnya Khan. This is definitely a must seen movie.

Personality Test

42.11 % plegmatis + 39.47 % melankolis, hasil analisa dari aplikasi pesonality test yang gw dapet dari XL-mania (baca : microsoft excel, bukan provider hape). Want to know what I think? ga tau apa angka persennya tepat, tapi sifat2 yang disebutin di situ emang gw banget. So, aplikasi nya emang yahud banget (^ _^)d. Pertanyaan yang harus dijawab di test ini emang banyak banget plus kadang2 bikin bingung (like any other psi quiz), jadi emang paling bagus kalo ngerjainnya pas lagi nyantei. So, why don't you try it and have fun (^- ^).

Child Abuse

One day there was a young woman with a crying boy in a market. She grumble to the boy, really don't know what she was saying, probably asked him to be quite. Cause the boy still crying, she pinched him in his nape of neck. Obviouslly it didn't worked either, even worst, he cry much more louder. Minutes later i heard a sound of slap, yup, she slap him, then back grumbling in her native lang. O.K, let me get this straight, she slap a probably five years old boy hard, in public, and didn't look regret it even a bit. What's wrong with that bitch? She probably deserve a jail time by abusing child like that. I just wish she's not his mom, cause she didn't deserve to be one. Fine, your child cry while you're tired probably anoying, but a child is a child. They don't understand when you're tired or not. All they deserve is love, fun, joy and hapiness. Adults abusing children should be shame on their self, cause the children are not an object to release your anger, pick your own size !!!

Lots of research found that all kind of mental disorder related to human bad experience when they were a child. Child who got molested by their parents will behave aggressive, and after they become parents they would act cruelly to their children. Aggressive parents born aggressive children that eventually will become aggressive adults. So, there you go, axis of evil.

I think this world will be a better place if we could treat children right. Hopelly i will remember this note when someday i become a mom.